{"id":2761,"date":"2025-04-24T17:20:05","date_gmt":"2025-04-25T01:20:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/?p=2761"},"modified":"2025-04-24T17:20:05","modified_gmt":"2025-04-25T01:20:05","slug":"things-that-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/2025\/04\/things-that-matter\/","title":{"rendered":"Things that matter"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Friends,<\/p>\n<p>I lied to a nun. <\/p>\n<p>I was asked to lie and I went along with the lie. My pal Bruce, the schnoodle entrusted to my care by those caring for a beloved centenarian, was killed on my watch but I couldn&#8217;t bring myself to share that news. I danced around the issue at the Idyllwild Indivisible rally where we spoke. Protest rallies are a thing now that the country is descending into authoritarian rule. We meet and we chat and we wonder how to best use our voices to help those who can&#8217;t defend themselves. We hugged and she asked me how he was doing. Why was one dog here but not our little boy.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;We had to leave him at home.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The nuns are lovely and I just can&#8217;t break their hearts. They know loss, but do they need more loss? More grief?<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve got work to do. We&#8217;ve got marching to do, and letter writing to do, and we&#8217;re not going to stop the kneecapping of our institutions by crying. We&#8217;ve got work to do.<\/p>\n<p>And for that, I lied to a nun. I spent hours working on her computer for free later that day to try and atone, but it still feels wrong. I spared her feelings, but she deserved to know.<\/p>\n<p>Your pal,<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; bob<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friends, I lied to a nun. I was asked to lie and I went along with the lie. My pal Bruce, the schnoodle entrusted to my care by those caring for a beloved centenarian, was killed on my watch but I couldn&#8217;t bring myself to share that news. I danced around the issue at the &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/2025\/04\/things-that-matter\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Things that matter&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2760,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[64,55],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2761","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-housekeeping","category-this-crappy-year"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/bruce_sofa.gif","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2761","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2761"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2761\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2762,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2761\/revisions\/2762"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2760"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2761"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2761"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bobtherieau.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2761"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}